Help my friend........Raj

10 PM Friday night I ( RAJ) got a call from suraj, it was late.

 I didn’t dare to upset  my wife by picking up the call as 

she feels that it’s her time & I need to learn to set up my priorities.

I didn’t pick the phone but also didn’t want suraj to get angry
so by 1 am I messaged him                         
“MSG KAAR JAAB BHI FREE HO”. 

After that from 1AM to 3 AM I was constantly getting his calls.

I begged my wife to allow me to talk to him she was adamant
as my home rule doesn’t permit me to receive a call after 9 PM.

At 4 AM I picked up his call thinking of some emergency at his end
but the conversation started with

 “f***er, still your intentions are not right, you bast***.”

I didn’t know what does that mean; I felt that there was something wrong.

I asked to meet up next day & clarify the confusion.

We meet, he showed me my msg

“MSG KAAR JAAB BIWI FREE HO”.

Now I understood the error, but what to do sometimes such things do happen.

I won’t blame him also because 7 years back in college
I had affection for Vandana his wife today, but now how does it matter,
after marriage it’s like a new life & it doesn’t  matter how or what was your past.

But whether we change; we forget our past, whether we become purely sacred.
How can a Marriage Knot change the person so much?

Does marriage is a solution which is as powerful a solution to straighten
dogs wagging tail or it’s a solution to cut dogs tail. 

How it happens that the men changes dramatically after marriage,
is it the rituals, responsibility, love or what.

Still there lies a problem of Extramarital affairs; I know it’s a sin, socially incorrect.

It’s tough to understand that where to draw the line.

But how can this sin be defined, IS IT wrong for a married man
to praise Deepika Padukon on screen or
is it wrong for a married man to praise a beautiful lady.

One of my intelligent friend defines it this way
“It’s never wrong to praise a beauty but it’s wrong to try to snatch it”.

But another friend feels that “if for a second also you think about
someone else then you are breaking the law of commitment and
once if you have broken that law then you are free to do it again
because the law stands equal for 1 murder & ALSO for 10.

 So the question is,
is it EQUALLY wrong for a committed person to go through some ones
Face book or Orkut Profile than
“TO A PERSON WHO IS DITCHING SOMEONE”.

STILL A QUESTION, LOOK FORWARD TO SOME ANSWERS…….RAJ

Not out at…….30

Its time to celebrate for the very first time I am dyeing my hair.

Its tough, I use to see my dad doing so in his late 40s. What I have started in my early 30s.

Does that mean I have reached the age when teen girls feel safe with me; even 12^th standard students start calling me uncle?

Now the conversation with friends have changed just 4 years back we use to discuss about gals but now its more about grey hair, baldness, over weight and so on.

Why things have changed so early, just 5 years back I was a college going chap.

At the age of 47 Salman Bhai feels himself to be young and at 28 I feel baaas bahoot hoogaya.

My boss, my dad, and my best friend every one feels that I am not the same as I was 2 years back.

So does that mean its all because of marriage ….. I don’t know, because I can see the changes very early in my life.

I feel my marriage is a BLESSING to me but just after two years why things have changed.

The reason is that, life has changed a lot…..

A boy from the age of 12 till the time he reaches 22 the race is tough & the goal is very clear to prove your mettle and get a pretty girl in life.

But now the right person has come so there is no race; no challenge the decade long battle has won….so there is no fun.

Some where I feel it is great fun to fight to achieve the goal rather than being happy after you have achieved it.

Life is just about the targets because some where I feel its great fun to work to achieve targets, rather than just being happy after achieving it.

So LIFE again I look forward to some different targets to make my YOU more interesting ………………………Dhruva

सिम्पली shaadi

I am 25, working in a good organization, takes care of South Maharashtra….this is the way my Profile starts, hey guys I am not planning to shift, it’s my Matrimonial profile.

My parents want me to get married before girls and their parents stop showing interest in me, as day after day I am getting fatter and bald.

They want a simple Marathi girl as my bride; I have to put my profile on “n” number of Marriage Web Portals. One among them is simplimarry.com, the sight seems to be cool but while I was trying to put my photo in profile, it didn’t happen. I had been trying it for a long time and at last I contacted the customer care executive. Who asked me to send my photo to her.

The executive was too sweet in the conversation, her name was Pratchi, and her voice was as beautiful as the name sounds.

I have noticed that in all other web portals I was getting matches from average looking, non working or better said not very interesting profiles. But it was something different for Simplimarry.com.

I was approached by very beautiful and talented girls, few weeks back I got a call from a girl based in Pune, Riddhi, she is an airhostess and when I visited her profile. She was really beautiful like a princess.

We started talking every day, I really felt great to talk to her and again I was in love, Riddhi was now my destiny. We chatted for hours and shared most of the things. I was on the seventh heaven with all my plans ready for marriage and a happy married life.

She asked me to come to Pune to meet and then take this discussion to our parents. I was more than happy because Riddhi is so beautiful that I would have married her at any moment she agrees.

We decided to meet at CCD, FC Road, I reached there an hour before in all my excitement to meet my love for the very first time.

At last Riddhi entered CCD and I gave her a big smile, she came closer and sat on the adjacent table of mine, I didn’t understand, why she did so.

I went to her and introduced myself as her prince charming “Dhruva”.

She was shocked for a moment, she slapped me hard on the face and went off the CCD. This was the very first time in my life that a girl slapped me.

I just didn’t know how to react, it made a pin drop silence at CCD and every one was starring me.

I ran behind her, stopped and asked her that what made her do so, she said she doesn’t want to talk to a CHEAT.

I said I love her and can’t even think to cheat her.

Riddhi – “You PUMPKIN, keep your LOVE in your pocket and don’t dare to meet me again or I will put a police complain against you”.

I didn’t understand a single thing of our conversation, for the next 15 minutes I stood there like a donkey who stands stationary at a place without any reason.

I cried miserably and went back home. After few days while I was going through my profile, still there was no photo loaded on my profile after requesting 10 times to that customer care executive, but now it didn’t matter as I was terribly broken in love.

I found there was a link to photos, where a person can add 5 more photos after the original profile photo, there was one photo loaded in my third column. I was shocked to see a handsome guy with great personality in my profile mentioned as
“Dhruva Nikam”.

Now I understood that Riddhi dreamt about Dhruva as that handsome guy and not me.

I was terribly upset, I knew that I can’t get Riddhi back but at least she should know that I am not a liar, I tried my best but she never replied to my calls or mails.

At last I realized that it would be that customer care executive Pratchi whose carelessness made all these errors.

I was angry and went to the her office with a plan to create a huge scene there, I was so much annoyed by Ridhi’s slap that I would have killed that executive for her mistake.

After waiting for an hour I meet Pratchi….

She was beautiful and caring. She didn’t argue but accepted her mistake.

AND AGAIN I AM WAITING IN CCD FOR my lady love TO COME for our first official date.

At last “Men will always be Men!”

(* Dear friends this is just a story not a TRUE story)

First Luv

Rahul, A champ and my best friend in the class, every one liked him, girls wooed for him; some times I was also jealous of him as he was the only guy who had a girlfriend in the class, Ana, the prettiest girl.

We were in Bhutan, studying in standard 6th, we didn’t know much about a relationship at that age but Rahul was sure that he would marry Ana one day.

Soon uncle was shifted and Rahul went to Delhi. He lost touch with Ana, Later I came to ratlam but we kept contact with each other like good buddies…… (Years later)…………………….

Rahul was transferred to Pune and we meet after 12 years, by now Ana episode was like a childhood prank and he had Mugdha in his life, she was his college mate and his parents were also fond of her.

Now we three of us had great time together on weekends, partying and had lots of fun.

One evening Rahul shown me a website named www.orkut.com it was some thing very interesting to me. I really liked it and was excited to know that most of the youngsters use this website.

On Sunday I kept searching and finding old friends and classmates, I found Ana; she was beautiful and well qualified, working in Bombay. She remembered me and we started to exchange scrap.

She had a plan to come Pune so we decided to meet, I thought it will be fun to take Rahul to meet her as surprise, lets see If she could recognize him or not.

To my shock, Ana did recognize Rahul, she hugged him and tears could be seen in her eyes (I was not lucky enough to be hugged). They were lost in the conversation of incidents happened 12 years back.

On the next Sunday it was my birthday and we went out for dinner. I could feel cold wibes between Mugdha & Ana; obviously none of the girl in this universe would like to meet her boyfriends “X”.

I could see insecurity in Mugdha eyes. Two weeks later I got a call from her; she cried and said that she could not take their relationship ahead. I tried to convince her but it didn’t work.

Rahul and Ana use to talk for hours and hours at night, I was too confused with Rahul’s love life.

I got busy in my work and was not in touch with anyone of them but Mugdha called me on a regular basis, the duration of our conversation increased day after day and later we use to share other things than Rahul.

Rahul called me up to meet, I thought it will be fun to meet Rahul and Mugdha after a long time, to my shock it wasn’t Mugdha but Ana. We all had good time but I missed Mugdha.

I and Mugdha started meeting, we had good time and life was simpler and happier all together.

Rahul felt that first love is the true love of life and he took a stand to be with Ana than any one else.
Somewhere I was happy with his decision because for the very first time some one had proposed me.

Mugdha broke up with Rahul, he was shocked to see me and Mugdha in a relationship, but I think he didn’t mind much as he could see nothing else than Ana.

After a month Ana invited me and Rahul to Bombay. Rahul was too excited as he expected himself to be introduced to Ana’s parents as some one special.

We got introduced to her parents, just as childhood friends but on the other hand I was invited for marriage as Brides "best friend". Here the bridegroom was not Rahul, it was someone else.

Ana said that she never had any feelings for Rahul; he took her excitement & extrovert behavior with some other meaning than friendship.

Now Rahul is all alone he wanted Mugdha to be back in his life, it never happened, me and Mugdha are happy together but I lost my child hood friend.

delhi to pune

I was on my way to Pune from Delhi. On Nizamuddin station, I saw a beautiful lady accompanied by her husband....He hugged and kissed her before leaving the station.
Our train had arrived and to my shock that beautiful lady had a seat (birth) next to mine.

There was another gentleman sitting next to us Mr. Bose. Soon we all started chatting, in the conversation she (Dr. Kalpana) told us about her profession and married life, after a long love affair for 5 years with her husband.

Now I had all praise and respect for her commitment, later Mr. Boss came to know that Dr. Kalpana was his X roommates class mate and then his conversation were too personal as off he himself was her classmate and slowly he just moved me out of the conversation.

I was sitting like a dumb, I meet Mr. Sunit, to whom I didn't notice for last an hour; he works with HSBC software Pune for last 8 years, he was at his early 30's. I liked him because he was silent, caring and I liked his presence.

He was coming back from his home where his parents had thrown him out from their life.
Six months back he was engaged to a girl sayali who was chosen by his parents, but now…

Sunit – I talk with Sayali quite often after our engagement, but I find her not of my type; she is a typical "BHENJI", not a girl suitable for Pune and my life style.

I want an independent girl, with goals in life. I don't want a girl who can just cook for me as I want a life partner not a maid servant in my life.

Sunit - I have told my father in-law that Sayali needs to bring some change in her personality, may be management study or some course in English and would never accept her backward attitude and suggested that "It's better to postpone marriage than compromising" .

(The girl's family felt that they were being cheated and Sunit has all the foolish reasons possible for not to marry their girl.
Sunit's parent wants the marriage to happen on the decided date and now they have broken all relationship with him as they are considered as culprit in the society.

On the other hand Sunit's decision is final and is not ready to compromise on his demands.)

I just don't understand that what's right and what's not, I don't find Sunit totally wrong but what ever he did is also not acceptable.

But to my schock i saw that Dr. Kalpana and Mr. Boss who were on the top births opposite to each other and were too comfortable in their chit chat.

At night it was 2 AM I woke up to drink water I saw Mr. Bose and Dr. Kalpana were getting too cozy in their talk in one blanket which they shared from their respective top births.

I could see from my lower birth that the legs were moving in all the wrong directions possible inside the blanket on the top births.

First I thought it's a "lost opportunity" , on the very second thought I felt it's very tough to understand people.

I was shocked to see a committed married lady ditching her husband for a gorilla double of her age.